.everything but the title.

So... you've found the one u wanna be with. U spend every day together, fuck everyday, she stays at ur crib, u stay at her crib, met friends, met family, said the I love yous, ur falling in love with each other, talkin about the future, saying how you'll never leave... and pow!

She disappears.

You have this one super small ass argument and u don't hear from her. She won't pick up calls or return them. U send a text and u get nothing back. Feels like a break up huh? Feels like u can't breathe, don't wanna sleep in ya bed cuz she was just in the same sheets, aint tryna watch any movie that reminds u of her, or maybe u gotta go buy new lotion cuz the only lotion in the house smells like her (random I know but I can't be the only one... lets be real gnr...).

But y r u hurt?

Yall weren't together. That was NOT ur girlfriend. She aint obligated to call, she aint obligated to come by or chill, and she aint obligated to talk to u and only you.

but neither are you.

We as people can fall so deep that we consume ourselves with one person, forgetting that we are not in relationships and that they are just friends. No matter how much work u put in, how much time you spend, how many I love yous you get from her, she is just a friend.

But friends don't kiss each other on the mouth right?

(Shoutout to my nigga BillieSimone)

So what is it? What do you do? How do you handle it? How do you make sure that there's no one else tryin to get where you're at?

You can't. there's always somebody trying to get ur position which is why you step ya game up. Date other people if u need to. But even dating others won't stop u from experiencing the pain of her leaving if she chooses to do so. All you can really do is treat every conversation, every kiss, every hug, and every I love you like its ur last one...

or leave.

Regardless, your in a situation where someone is bound to get hurt so call it what it is...



- Yungin. ((f.l.h.))